Dear Brothers,
Us girls are often the ones who want affirmation and encouragement, but you guys need it just as much as we do! We don’t do it enough. We appreciate who you all are, and want you all to know how much you guys are important to us. Sometimes we try so hard to get your attention and to get you guys to like us, without taking into account how much you guys try to impress us. All those weights you lift, the gel, the overly recited words, thank you for all of it. It may seem like every girl that exists is on the hunt for their Taylor Lautner, but we guarantee you that’s not true. With a real girl, it takes much more than tan skin and muscles to capture our attention.
The population of respectful, kind gentleman is almost extinct and being replaced with these hungry hormonal animals who see us as walking meat to devour. It’s disgusting. Instead of seeing us as daughters of a King, we’re just this “game” to play. We don’t want to be just another number. We have names, and would like to be called by our names. If you think “babe, baby, hot-stuff etc.” is cute? Have some class. We appreciate the boys who look from our chins and up, thank you. Respect our bodies, respect our dignity, and respect our purity.
If God can resurrect Jesus from the dead, He can also bring back chivalry from the grave. That’s right, we NOTICE if you open the door for us and have manners! Not all of us are uptight picky perfectionists, but some decent manners would be nice. Nothing’s more attractive than a boy who has respect and class. We notice when a guy uses the same line over and over to every girl just to win their hearts. Be original, save your hearts and words, and be careful who you invest your time in. If you’re not interested, don’t mess with our hearts! Don’t play with love and emotions; it isn’t funny to be crying over someone who didn’t mean a word they said. FYI, not all of us like to be called “hot and sexy.” There are many other lovely adjectives that make us melt. If you haven’t noticed, we like to usually talk a lot, even the ones that may seem a bit quieter. Start conversations with us! It’s so refreshing when we talk to guys that will converse about life, and nice things and not just the perverted stuff. We notice a guy who isn’t ashamed to talk about his faith, and are humble when sharing. Strength isn’t always in the muscles, but rather in the soul and mind. Sincerity and sensitivity are big points when it comes to traits we admire and long for. We’re very emotional at times, some days more than others, and some sweet understanding and kind words can change a whole girls day. Don’t be afraid to be cheesy and say nice things if they’re on your mind. If you want to win our hearts over, be honest with us, and be genuine. Sometimes the moments we’re quietest is when we’re in need the most to speak and be listened to. Some of us are shyer than others. It doesn’t always mean we don’t want to talk to you. We just may be afraid of what you’ll think and say. Nerves go on both sides of the spectrum. Don’t only reach out to the girls who are out there and confidant; some of us are waiting for you to break the ice.
The definition of Prince Charming isn’t always the same with every girl. What we want more than anything is someone whose heart is gold, and cares about us. A boy who encourages us, and is a leader for his brothers. Someone who loves God more than sports and cars. Someone who will place the Lord as His number one. Someone who seeks Him, to find us. A guy we can see Christ shine through. We sometimes become so desperate for the approval of boys, whether the cost is our bodies, souls or hearts. Please become the great man God wants you to be so we have more to choose from than all the jerks in the world. Each of you has potential to become something great, to be used to do remarkable and courageous things. We see it in all of you, and want you to see it too. We want to be encouraging and to support you. We want to be your comfort when the world is overwhelming. We want to be great daughters, sisters, friends, and someday wives for you guys. We will do our best, and expect you to as well. We thank you for being a man of Christ, and for being authentic. We are aware of the pressures, the expectations, the struggles and the temptations you face. Keep on fighting the battles life throws at you, for God will bless you tremendously if you stay faithful to Him. Never give up, keep on going, because we’re right here to catch you if you fall and to talk about your feelings (haha). We’ll be your sweethearts, we’ll be the girl of your dreams; but first become the man of ours. We love you to no end.
Sincerely,
Your Sisters in Christ
