"why aren't you in a group? when i step back and look at all the people at our church, i don't know where you belong. i can't see which group of people you would fit in with."
"i think something is wrong with you" [a comment made after i wasn't invited for the second time to someone's birthday social]
"you need to be louder."
four hurtful and honest and direct statements made to me on different occasions by one person. thankyou for showing me what Jesus' love looks like...
