cousin: why can't His silence be an answer? why does His answer always have to be a 'yes' or 'no?' sometimes, His silence IS the answer. He's not always going to tell you what to do or what not to do. He wants YOU to make the decision and have faith that whatever decision you make, He will always be there for you and bless you no matter which path you take. you're not a robot -- you can make your own decisions, you know. think of a parent and a child. when the child is still young, the parent teaches her from right or wrong. and the parent, out of his best interest, will tell the child what to do. but when the child grows up, the parent will provide guidance but ultimately, let the child make her own decisions. but whatever choice she makes, the parent will always support her, always protect her, always love her.
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friend: taking a risk is another way of God presenting you with a challenge and/or trial. haven't you noticed that all the trials you've gone through, in the end, they brought you closer to God? although they're hard to endure, hardships are what grows your faith and relationship with God. with that in mind, i would jump at the chance of taking a risk if it means that it will bring me closer to God.
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friend: it's not about being brave or courageous. it's about having faith. have faith and trust God.
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Peace I live with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid. -- John 14:27
