whenever i hear my guy friends talk about what they would do for their future wife, or how they would propose, or what they would want their wife to be like, i can't help but smile and find it so endearing. BUT. at the same time, i find it soo weird to hear these guys talk about their future wife so nonchalantly, so casually. i mean, i shouldn't be surprised to hear anyone talk about their future someone because we all are growing up. and having a future someone is a part of life; it's normal. and most people would argue that the next step in life, after finding a job, is marriage. so then, why do i feel so weird when i hear anyone talk about their future significant other? is it because i still may possibly be very young at heart and see myself and every one of my friends as young kids rather than adults? or is it because i'm not comfortable to talk/hear about the possible existence of a future husband in my own life? hmm.. for whatever reason it may be, i need to get used to hearing the terms, "wife/husband," from my friends. they're just growing up.
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