shrug

it isn't just my mom who's worried about me for never having dated anyone, or that i'm not dating anyone at my "old" age. but it's my whole extended family who are seriously concerned about me. i'm not sure how i feel about my aunts and uncles talking about me.. and worrying about me.. perhaps even feeling sorry for me? maybe even feeling sorry for my mom? 

i don't feel very good about it. i wish i can tell them that they shouldn't be so worried; i'm not even worried! and i'm not worried.. bc.. i don't think it's that important. what's so wrong about a girl being single, and maybe remaining single for the rest of her life? will they always feel sorry for me and my mom as long i'm single? i don't ever want to see them look at me with a sadness in their eyes..

sigh.